So I meet this guy at party Downtown Manhattan. It was dark, I was drunk, you get the picture. I gave him my number and didn't really think that much of it. After having a cool convo with him, we realized we had similar backgrounds. I was interested to maybe see how something would play out with him. Now I make no apologies about feeling a guy should put in some effort, both emotionally and monetarily, when trying to pursue a woman. When one or the other, particularly the latter, is lacking, it puts me in an uneasy state. Here's my thoughts on how things are going, via our tweets and text convos. Enjoy...

WHAT HE SAID: "How bout a quiet evening in, with a movie" - 7:11 PM Jun 4th

I TWEET: "I'm broke, can we do something free and I can potentially beat (get you in the sack)"

I TWEET: "So, we get all the way to the city just for this fool to tell me he "forgot" his bank card. Now he's texting me, talking about he wish this night didnt have to end. WTF, did i miss something??" - Jun 8th 2:44AM

I TWEET: "Now he wants to come over and "watch" tv with me. Leave me alone" - 3:00 AM Jun 8th

I TWEET: "Are there any boys around that know how to make a girl feel, make her feel good???" - 3:02 AM Jun 8th

Him: What you up to?
Me: On my way home
Him: Ok...so what are you doing for the rest of the weekend?
Me: Nothing, why?
Him: I was thinking we could spend some time together
Me: Oh, what did you have in mind
Him: I wanted to get close to you
Me: So where you taking me?
Him: I was thinking more like watching the game, you next to me, my arms around you ???
Me: That's cool too but I like to do things and go places. I'm very outgoing. Especially since I'm tryin to get to know u, I don't think stayin in is the best idea.
Him: Yeah your right

Posted by Camillia


Teneille said... @ June 19, 2009 at 7:39 PM

Hahahahahaha! U bytch!

Sofia said... @ June 20, 2009 at 11:00 AM


Icecrima said... @ June 20, 2009 at 4:54 PM

"I'm very out going." LMAO...Loves it, Brodied!!!

Icecrima said... @ June 20, 2009 at 4:54 PM

Oh... yes... Brodied means I'm takin it... Philly Shit

100K said... @ June 22, 2009 at 3:14 AM

Just from an honest POV:

How much would a guy have to spend?

My general rule for a first date is $50 max. I dont know this girl and if she's a psycho/has a man and is looking for a free meal/has any red flags. That's the logic a lotta guys have. We dont wanna invest too much time/money into something that aint gonna benefit us.

Camillia Tamar said... @ June 28, 2009 at 1:18 PM

@ 100K Thats all very true and
I understand your concerns but you gotta spend something. A girl wants to feel like she's worth something more than a good lay. If your not out to only get sex then spend a 'lil, can't hurt.

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