I read The Introduction for Boys And Clothes, and not only is the site supposed to read like a diary, but its also supposed to be a guide for boys (Whoever wrote the intro inspired today's post Teneille, Shaina, Shana, Cee, and the rest of you girls who originated this B+C movement), and how to deal with us. I decided why not school the guys on some MAJOR turn offs. So ladies; participate by posting your Turn-Offs in the Comment Section.
Maybe it's just me but ughhh complaining all the time just annoys me to the point where i would probably feel the urge to bring my evil alter ego out and go on a angry woman's rampage. A guy that nags just gets under my skin; especially because you guys are always COMPLAINING about how us women are always COMPLAINING! *shakes my head*
Him - "Excuse me miss, do I Know You?"
Her - "No, I Don't think so"
Him - "Well I'd Like To"
*Blink Blink* - Sir please don't do that to me.
That's a form of lying, and i think that the universal female, as well as man doesn't like, nor do they appreciate a lie. Be Yourself!!
Lol, Shana was on Twitter asking questions about fashion and expressing how she felt after attending an event where the people where supposed to be networking. Anti-social is a no-no.
Please, don't go throwing money in my face when I hardly know you. That's a turn-off and is actually disrespectful. Don't treat her like a cheap prostitute or some kind of gold digger.
--"Now, you don't even know me but you wanna take me shopping, you a lame, i can tell it ain't big sh*t poppin' ya turnin' me off, ya turnin me off"
I don't like a guy who's about 1 inch away from my face and he's talking and his hands somehow end up on the small of my back, then my waist, then he's getting lower.
EXCUSE ME SIR! You might want to Back off, I Don't know you.
Lol, I say that alot. You guys who are always trying to act like the "I wear the pants in this relationship" type when we're around your friends. That's a major turn off. Don't wanna say I Love you when you about to hang up because your around your friends and they're going to think your soft.
LADIES: If you got a "man" like this get rid of him because he's NOT a man and has some growing up to do. You can either point it out and stick with him while he tries to fix it, but if repairs don't seem likely, he's playing games, he on some straight up Destiny's Child "Say My Name" type bullshit.
"Where You At? What You Doing? Who Are You With? Why You There? What Time You Leaving? When Should You be Getting Home?"
Some females like that kind of "affection". I Don't; especially when your doing that every hour on the hour 24/7.
-Forgetting stuff like MY BIRTHDAY!! (Nooo Buddy)
-Asking me what my name is a million times after I just told you when you met me (Fellas if anything you should remember, its her name when you first meet her)
-Roaming Eyes (We notice when your looking at her but talking to us)
-Comparing us to your Ex or ANY female AT ALL. (You fellas don't like it either)
-Controlling Guys (No female wants to be told what to say, what to do, how to sit, and how to dress. We have minds of our own.
-Doing overtly nasty gestures in public - (We dont like it in an intimate setting so in public....ughhhh. seriously?)
- A Soft Guy (Don't let us walk all over you, that's a major turn off, don't be scared to put your foot down and check her every once in a while. That doesn't mean put your foot down her throat or your fist in her face, hitting is a NO NO!)