Well, when I used to :-/. I ain't no Kimberly Jones. More like a Rashida Jones.

So here we are the girls with the big mouths who aren't afraid to speak what's on their mind and tackle all things taboo yet, how prude we've become when it comes to matters of the boudoir.

Friday, I needed to unplug from the matrix. I nestled up in a lonely Starbucks, boo-hooed into 3 cups of black coffee and took my single self to an afternoon movie.

REWIND: Wednesday night Shaina couldn't sleep. So she called me at 3 something in the morning (because I'm always up) and we had a delirium induced laughathon. Somehow the conversation took a turn into our sex lives and I spilled to Shaina that I just can't "blow" anymore (you know, head). It's not that I'm unsure of myself, I don't need practice, I'm just not interested :-/. I find myself faking even normal sex the last few times I've gotten "lucky".

*What it feels like*

So Friday when I went to the movies, it was ironic to me that in "I Love You Man", Rashida Jones' character had the same hang up when it came to oral. Is this common? How is it that a girl who could once supply more blow to her man than George Jung not even stand the smell of it anymore?


Rinaldy Laguerre said... @ March 22, 2009 at 11:53 PM

Things change much? life is a wave at times your into shit and at times your not.

leahnicole said... @ March 22, 2009 at 11:58 PM

"i heart u, womyn"..did u really just write that?! shit made my night! im guna go with common.

Teneille said... @ March 23, 2009 at 3:38 AM


Super Woman said... @ March 23, 2009 at 4:01 PM


Lol I thought i had balls, but clearly you have more than me lol.
I dont know i went through this now im in the midst of a damn near two year dry spell, because i decided to just say abstinence instead of saying the sex drive aint there....

its there but .....blah!

I Am Who I Am, Deal With It said... @ March 23, 2009 at 4:41 PM

cool post, its true maybe its the person and that motivation isnt there anymore...

Sofia said... @ March 24, 2009 at 9:06 AM

It took a little while to realize or rather come to terms with what u wrote...

but your not alone...

check my new post on what men have to say about going DOWN!!!

Good Life said... @ March 24, 2009 at 3:09 PM

No this is not acceptable. Why is "lack of..." the new trend with females. Females are starving themselves. No sex. And now no head. What is our world coming to.....maybe its due to the recession....but either way....SMGDH

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