Super Sport Asks…
As much shit as I talk, I'm actually really shy, especially when it comes to meeting new girls. I always seem to see nice-looking girls, but can't really bring myself to say anything, lol...So I said all that to ask, what is it that a woman likes/wants to hear when some stranger is trying to get you to notice them? I already know about the whole no ‘aye-baby-yo-ma-catcalling' rule...but even for yourself, what do YOU like to hear from a new kid?:-)

Teneille Said…
So you know we have a rule at B+C to “Keep It All The Way Real” all the time right? I’m partial to this question because everyone knows I HATE all forms of being romantically approached by a stranger. Whether a guy is completely polite or outright hilarious (because I have heard it all), I’m just turned off altogether by these kinds of meetings. Mainly for me, I need references. It’s a huge risk getting to know someone who you have no background information on except what they’ve told you about themselves. If there’s no possible way I’d be able to pull references on you then I need to notice your routine before I decide to give you a chance. How do I know this isn’t your only nice outfit? How do I know you aren’t some disgusting serial “bitch-bagger”? Once I have your references, then technically you’re not a stranger anymore (which benefits us both when you think about it). Personally, I need to feel you worked to get my attention. Giving you my number with no real grasp on if you’re even worth my time is too easy, and it’s free. It’s the equivalent of going on a first date to the park. It’s cute but it’s, free. So given I’m not the right one to answer this question without complete bias, I asked Cee…

Cece said…
Less is more. If a situation feels like it’s forced then automatically I’m becoming defensive. From my perspective, I feel like it’s more successful if there’s a mutual connection. If a lady is feeling you she would let you know. Whether it be a faint smile, a small glance or a full on stare, she will let you know. Now, if I’m trying my best to not make any kind of eye contact with you, chances are I want you to stay the hell out of my face. If my behavior says otherwise, then I’m hoping you do something natural to the circumstances. But, if you already have a game plan going then drop it because you have just bought yourself a one way ticket to nowhere.


$port said... @ November 3, 2008 at 11:06 AM

'serial bitch-bagger' = huh-larious lol....

'how do i know this isn't your only nice outfit??' = just wrong!

i made note of all of it...

thanks ladies!!

Teneille said... @ November 3, 2008 at 11:38 AM

Hey, you know me! I gotta keep it all the way real!

Mr Sykes said... @ November 3, 2008 at 1:07 PM

Yes I agree w/ Sport..."Serial Bitch Bagger" is that the way it is T? LOL for real. I think that's the new phrase for 09'

Teneille said... @ November 3, 2008 at 1:34 PM

I'm sure all guys have a friend that is a Serial Bitch Bagger just like mostly all girls have the "hoe friend". A serial bitch bagger is a guy who defines his masculinity by the amount of women he's "conquered". No woman wants to be another "conquest" or "notch under some dudes belt". So to the SBB's around the world, WE HATE YOU! :)

$port said... @ November 3, 2008 at 2:08 PM

word...i do in fact have a couple SBB homies...countin' and shit..

how old are you again?? lol...

brian said... @ November 3, 2008 at 4:23 PM

so, every guy youve dealt with you need refrences? i'm lost.

Good Life said... @ November 3, 2008 at 5:22 PM

Wait Wait Wait.....The same chances you are taking on me (ie:SBB, only nice outfit), Im taking on you. How do I know you're not excited by outfit and see $$$? How do I know you dont give your number to every decent guy that approaches? Females are so confusing. Im blogging on this..........

Teneille said... @ November 3, 2008 at 5:40 PM

@Brian At this age? Hell yeah! When you're younger and naive its not that big of a deal. But the older you get the less of a risktaker you become by just dealing with any ol' body.

@Goodlife Hence why I said I need references which works for both of us. When you take what you want to take from my response then of course you'd get the on the surface superficialities. If I don't have any references on you, of course I'll need to scope out your appearance. First impressions are everything but determing your routine (ie. How well you take careof yourself, if you're a womanizer or an unemployed loser) is what I'd make my decision on. And I advise you guys to do the same when you're thinking of approaching a female as well. But don't get it twisted playboy, its human nature.

Teneille said... @ November 3, 2008 at 5:44 PM

@Brian Is this BDOT Brian? LMAO!! Cheap shot bro man!! Cheap Shot!! LMAOOO!!

cece said... @ November 3, 2008 at 7:11 PM
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Teneille said... @ November 3, 2008 at 8:16 PM

@Sport @Brian @Good Life @Kawaan @Mr Sykes I love yall for getting so involved! We got so much more coming! :) :) Fuck with NYSD, we got some hard cold lessons for yall!

Kawaan said... @ November 3, 2008 at 8:26 PM

Serial Bitch Baggers make dudes like me look bad. I think yall need to elaborate on that subject....

brian said... @ November 3, 2008 at 8:37 PM

yes, this is brian B.Dot miller...but if ur out and about, and u see an attractive guy, ur not going to guve him ur # cause he doesnt have refrences" what classifys as reference anyway? a facebook page or somethin?

Teneille said... @ November 3, 2008 at 8:49 PM

@kawaan How does it make guys like you look bad? See above for my definition of a SBB. They're those guys who prey on women for the sake of acquiring another notch under their belt. If thats not you then...? :-/

@brian Like I told Sport, thats why I'm not the best one to answer this question. In an effort to preserve my under two hands body count (yeah I said it), I'm not quick to holla at any dude with the equivalent of "a big butt and a smile" PAUSE. References would be a mutual friend maybe a couple of google results (I'm just saying). This is a small world we live in B-Dot so its not as hard to find references as it seems.

Camillia Tamar said... @ November 3, 2008 at 8:52 PM

Its not that WE want your money, we just want to make sure YOU have your own

Shaina said... @ November 3, 2008 at 9:53 PM
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Shaina said... @ November 3, 2008 at 9:53 PM

O..M..G! Whats wrong with giving a guy a good once over?? Giving you number out is a big fucking deal! Theres a whole hell of a lot of crazies out there that dress nice, look good, and got money...they dont all look like the merch that walks around downtown BK. And guys feel the same way, trust!

A nigga like me, dont know your name, only know you by your aim!

Kawaan said... @ November 4, 2008 at 2:10 AM

@teneille more will be elaborated soon..... after election day most likely

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